We all worry from time to time that we are not connecting with our children as well as we could. Do I know my kids well? Do they know I love them and care? We all have those doubts from time to time.  You are already showing you care by worrying about it so let’s look at some suggestions for improving connections.

Talk (and Listen) to Them - This is the most basic way to connect with your children. Tell them about your day and ask them about theirs. Ask them questions. It’s imperative for people to feel like the person they’re talking to cares. Asking questions about your child proves you are listening and want to know more.

Take an Interest in their Interests - Sometimes talking doesn’t work so you can try to get involved in someway in anything they like to do. Try not to be judgmental; they are more likely to respond if they feel you want to appreciate what they love.

Invite Them into Your World - If you’re willing to show your children who you are they may open and do the same. Invite them to one of your favourite shows or sporting events.

Find a new Hobby - If you find you have no interests in common, you can talk with them about finding something new for the two of you to do together. You could try and find an activity neither of you has tried before and start together.

Guilt is not a Weapon - Make it clear that you want to spend time with them and get to know them, but don’t try to make your kids feel bad if it doesn’t work out right away.

There is a Time for Friendship and a Time for Parenting - It’s necessary to find a balance between parenting and friendship. As a parent, you’re there primarily to ensure your child is safe and grows up well.

Don’t get Discouraged - Being a parent is challenging. It may seem that no matter what you try, you still feel just as distant as when you started. Don’t give up. Your children will appreciate that you are trying – even if they don’t always show it.

Acknowledgement: Parenting Today, Child development Institute. 2022

Awards Assembly - I am pleased to announce family members of the children receiving an award, are welcome to attend the Week 6 Star Awards Assembly. Please contact the office to let us know you will be in attendance. Maintain social distancing, sanitise your hands upon arrival and mask wearing is encouraged.

Book Week - Next week is a huge week for the Library! We have two author visits and the book parade! Special thanks to Ms Melville for her preparation, organisation and enthusiasm to get these special events ready for our students. 

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